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After a month, we
muslims fast from early dawn till dusk, Hari Raya Aidilfitri is a symbol of
victory for us!! To be able to fast for a whole month not just from food and
drinks but also from bad deeds, bad talks, bad thoughts and etc. We are trained
to at least try our best for 30 days from doing bad things hoping when the
Ramadhan is over, we could get used to not-doing-bad-things. I hope I've put it
in the simplest way (^^)
The night before Aidilfitri, right after the dusk approaches, we
are encouraged to takbiran (a form of recital that prays to Allah) starting
after our Maghrib prayer until the next day's zuhur. You could consider it as a
form of victory song for us.During Aidilfitri, we are encouraged to wear the
fines cloth we have like 'Baju Kurung" for woman and "Baju
Melayu" for man, eat the best dish to celebrate the Aidilfitri. During the
first day of Aidilfitri, must be dress up with a perfect. So even for those who
fast every day, they can't fast on 1st day of Aidilfitri. In the morning,
families would prepare themselves for Aidilfitri prayer. It's encouraged to
have breakfast together first before going to the mosque. The ladies would also
join the prayer. It could be considered as one of the prayer that is joined by
the women.
Hence, you would hear echoes of takbir (victory
song) in the air from all the mosques. We are encouraged to takbiran as much as
we could before the Aidilfitri prayer which is usually performed around
8:30-8:45 morning, people coming towards the mosque to pray during this special
day.
After prayer, everyone would usually go back
home as one of the tradition is to seek for forgiveness from among the family
members before visiting others. As for my own family, we do it in a proper
session where we would form a circle or something like that, our parents would
be waiting for us to handshake them and ask for forgiveness. Aidilfitri is
one of the best time for us to formally seek for forgiveness from our parents
if we have ever hurt them during the past year. In my family we do it in a very
sincere way where it really is a touching moment for each and every one of us. Aidilfitri is also the time where kids would be
so happy to get 'duit raya' from the adults.
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kids with 'duit raya' |
The sharing is also done in a form of serving dishes to the visitor. All
kind of cookies, cakes, traditional food which only appears during of
Aidilfitri. The example traditional food menu for Aidilfitri is rendang (a dry
beef curry which is cooked over a slow fire for many hours), ketupat, serunding,
kuah kacang and lontong. Some of the people say your guests would bring along
your sins out of your house, so we are supposed to treat our guests in the best
possible way.
I would like to wish all my Muslim friends, blogger friends, blog
readers/visitors and relatives also my lecturer "Selamat Hari Raya
Aidilfitri". May you all have safe journeys to and fro wherever you may go
and may you be blessed with meaningful moments with your loved ones.
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